Big Birthdays and What They Mean

Did you know that landmark birthdays differ fromof 21, we tend to mark the passing of each decade
country to country and culture to culture? Gifts forby celebrating any birthday that ends in '0'.
landmark birthdays also differ depending on whereGifts tend to match the significance of the birthday,
you live and the religion you follow.with more thought and often expense lavished on
First birthdaysthese special birthdays.
While a first birthday is always an importantIn recent years, experience gifts and holidays are
celebration for proud parents, in China a child's firstbecoming more and more popular for landmark
birthday is particularly significant. Known as the 'zhuabirthdays, as individuals use the excuse of a new
zhou' or the 'birthday grab' this milestone isdecade in their lives to reinvent themselves or try
considered a 'coming of age' for Chinese babies andsomething new. Keepsake gifts, like photo albums
has been passed down from dynastic times.and jewellery are also popular.
It starts with a celebration feast and almost60th birthdays
everything that happens has some form ofAfter the first birthday, the next landmark birthday
symbolism. After the meal, a set of items are placedon the Chinese calendar is the 60th birthday. This
before the birthday child for him or her to choosemarks the end of one cycle of a person's life and the
from. The first item the child picks and successfullystart of another. As an individual is expected to have
gives to his or her parents may be an indication ofa big family by the age of 60, it is considered a time
the child's future career, for example a stamp is usedto celebrate this achievement. Traditional 60th
to donate a high-ranking official or person of power.Birthday gifts include eggs, long noodles, wine and
Coming of age birthdaysmoney wrapped in red paper.
In the UK, coming of age was traditionally celebrated65th birthday
on your 21st birthday. Known as being given the 'keyTraditionally the time of retirement, many people
of the door' (immortalised in the seaside bingo call,have a big celebration for their 65th birthday. Gifts
'Key of the door, 21'), individuals were (and often stillrelated to this new chapter in their lives are
are) presented with a symbolic key to mark thisparticularly appropriate. DIY, gardening or cookery
important year.books may provide them with a new hobby or
When the age at which you are legally an adultinterest.
dropped to 18 in the UK in 1969, people started toAlternatively, if they've always talked about getting
celebrate their 18th birthday instead of or as well asout and about more, walking boots and a book of
their 21st birthday - a custom that continues today.favourite walks might be a welcome gift. You could
In the USA however, 'sweet sixteen' birthdayeven make it extra special by including a weekend
celebrations are an incredibly popular way of markingbreak in the country.
an individual's coming of age. This is especially true of100th birthday
girls in the US.Reaching 100 is an achievement that should be
It's not just different countries that have differentcelebrated in style, after all not many people live for
celebrations. Different cultures also mark coming ofan entire century. In the UK, a message from the
age in different ways. Jewish boys have a barQueen is traditionally sent to anyone reaching 100
mitzvah on or around their 13th birthday, while Jewishyears of age.
girls have a bat mitzvah on or around their 12thBut what gift can you buy for someone celebrating
birthday, in some forms of Judaism.their 100th birthday? Flowers, chocolates or a 100th
Latin American countries celebrate Quinceanera,birthday balloon may be appreciated, but often time
which is a coming of age ceremony held on a girl'sis the biggest gift you can give someone at this age.
fifteenth birthday. Gifts for this important birthdayWhether it's your mother, father, grandmother or
are usually religious in nature, such as a Bible, a cross,great-grand father, put together a photo album of his
rosary or sceptre.or her life and spend the day reminiscing about their
Birthdays with an 'Oh'!achievements.
In the UK and many other countries, after the age