How to Throw a Heartfelt Milestone Birthday

A one-year old's birthday party is really a party forthem...although I wouldn't discourage it if the mood
the adults, especially if this is the party-throwers firststrikes.
child. Traditionally it's all about watching the little oneElement #4 - Food & Beverage: Never Stress
eat cake for the first time and excitedly rip off theAbout Food and Drinks
wrapping paper from the presents. But for this party,The cake is what it's all about on the first birthday.
I'm going to try and give the adults a few moreBut since the one year old probably won't remember
things to do that are fun and festive, but mostthe cake, be sure it is one that the guests will by
importantly, are all still about the birthday boy or girl.making it a photo cake! This is a lot easier than you
The nice thing about this Milestone Birthday Partymay think.
Plan, is that many of these elements can actually beMany bakeries have the technology to make this
adopted for just about ANY birthday...boy or girl...bigpossible. So choose your favorite photo of the guest
or small.of honor and bring it to life in frosting.
Element #1 - Theme, Mood & Color: Carry ThemOr, if cupcakes are more your style, you can still
Out In Everything You Doapply the photo idea by creating photo flags. For this
To determine the theme for this party we're goingproject you'll simply need some cardstock, pinking
to use a three-step process:scissors, a hole-punch, and some lollipop sticks. And of
First, go to your favorite party supply store eithercourse you'll need your favorite photo of the
on-line or in person and find a 1st Year Birthdaybirthday baby and some double stick adhesive.
dinner plate that you like. This is what I call yourIf you used a photo pick on your invitations, you
"inspiration piece."could use the same picture (and/or pick) on your
Second, create an "Imagination Board" out of a largecupcakes. Whichever way you go, adding a photo
sheet of butcher paper or a sheet of binder paper.element to your food and beverage menu is a great
However, if you are personally planning multipletouch.
parties over the years, I suggest you purchase a 2 xElement #5 - Activities: Engage Your Guests In
3 foot white board which you can pick one up atSomething
your local office supply store.I think it's great to have things for your guests to
Third, to begin brainstorming I put my inspirationget involved in besides opening gifts and watching
piece on my Imagination Board. I then write downthe little one eat---or play with---cake. Both are great
everything that comes to mind related to what I seefun, but here are a few other things to consider
and think about when I look at my inspiration piece.doing at your First Year Milestone Birthday Party.
For example, when I looked at the plate I choose, ICreate a "Year in the Life of" collage panel. This is a
thought about: my little cupcake, how fun it is to begreat idea if you have windowpanes in your home,
one, and how she gets to make a wish and blow outbut if not try a long frame or collage panel. Most
her first candle.multiple opening frames will work great as long as
Keep your Imagination Board (or paper) handyyou include photos from birth through 12 months. Or
because you may refer to it for inspirationyou could create a video showing some of baby's
throughout the party planning process. I usually addbest moments of the last 12 months that your
to my board as I shop around and see things thatguests may have missed.
are available with my theme and as ideas come toConsider having your "baby book" done for some
me. These ideas are the foundation for the wordingadded fun things to look through. Or put together a
on the invitations, the cake, the thank you notes,scrapbook of the months leading up to baby's birth.
and so on.You can also use a computer software program to
Element #2 - Invitations: Make Them Invitingmake a beautiful photo book.
There is nothing wrong with checking out theLastly, create a "Game of Firsts." Write the following
invitations that match the paper goods you'vequestions inside disposable diapers with a colored
decided to use for a themed party. In fact, theySharpie pen:
could make a good base for your invitation that you-- When did I first smile?
can add on to, or at the very least provide you with-- When did I get my first tooth?
clever wording.-- When did I first sit up?
The invitation that matches my "cupcake" inspiration-- When did I first crawl?
plate is darling. It has a unique shape, it is fun, it looks-- When did I first sleep through the night?
like a party; and the printed words tie in beautifully to-- When did I say my first word? Bonus points -
my theme. The only thing I would do however, whenWhat was my first word?
using a store bought invitation is to make is to "myHave guests pull a diaper from a diaper bag (or other
own" by adding my own message, an embellishmentcreative container) and guess the date that each of
or additional card stock.these events (or others that you came up with)
Taking an idea from my Imagination Board, I'm goinghappened.
to write, "Come help us blow out her candle" on aGive out fun prizes to the ones who guess closest.
little tag and attach it by ribbon to a small, real candle.You know what kinds of gifts your guests would like
Then I'm going to adhere that to the top of thebetter than I do given the mix of people you're
cupcake invitation, using super sticky tape, and voilainviting, but some nice nonspecific ideas include
-- a store bought invite given a little extra somethin'chocolates, gift cards or home entertaining items like
somethin'.coasters or serving pieces...things people might
Here's an additional example using another cupcakeactually use.
invitation for a baby boy's first birthday. I'm going toElement #6 - Special Touches: Set Your Party Apart;
modify a store-bought party pick (basically anGive Them Something From Your Heart
over-sized plastic toothpick with a round circle on oneI adore creating a special keepsake for the guest of
end) by adding a photo of the birthday boy insidehonor at any party; in this case, a Signature Cake
the circle. Using a round circle punch makes quickPlate provides the perfect backdrop for your party
work of this step. Then I stick the photo pick intoguests to make a wish for baby's 1st Year Milestone
the cupcake invite and there you go - a cute,Birthday.
personalized and unique invitation with some addedSignature Plates usually come as kits with special
pizazz.pens. You just have the guests sign the plate with
Element #3 - Decor & Ambiance: Remembertheir special sentiment, and then bake the plate in
Set and Setting Are Everythingyour oven, which makes the ink permanent.
I want to keep the decorations fun and yet elegantEasyPeazy!
for this First Year Milestone Birthday party. To doIf you don't like the plate idea you can create a book
this I'm going to focus on two main elements...1stfor birthday wishes. You can buy one---or create
Year Birthday paper goods, like our inspiration piece,your own Wish Book out of two sheets of
and balloons -- because nothing says a party like12x12-inch heavy card stock that you can trim down,
balloons.several blank 8 ½ x11-inch sheets, a hole punch
You may consider paper plates and napkins, justand some coordinating ribbon.
paper plates and napkins. But in many ways theseTo make the most out of the plate or the book, I
party goods can be considered a part of yourwould encourage guests to write down a thoughtful
décor, especially when they're cute, bright,wish for baby's life...wishes like, "May you always
and cheerful, and they add so much color to yourhave a smile on your face and music in your heart."
party space.Or "May you always know love." Or "We wish you a
I don't like to go too matchy-matchy because I thinklifetime of laughter and happiness."
it looks tacky. So, I mix things up a bit by combiningSince you never really know if the one-ear old guest
solid plates and cups with my patterned ones. I haveof honor is going to be awake and happy to take
even been known to throw in a different patternphotos during the party with all those people
from time to time that coordinates nicely.around---here's an option that happens after the
I think balloons say birthday! One of my favorite funparty, and more important, at your leisure.
but elegant decorating secrets is balloon bouquets onSimply have your camera on hand and take a photo
sticks. To start, just choose balloon colors from yourof the birthday boy or girl playing with each one of
inspiration plate and purchase balloon sticks (withtheir new gifts one at a time. What guest wouldn't
cups) in a gross or bulk from a party supply store.love to see a personalized thank you note with an
Simply blow up your balloon (no helium needed), tie itadorable photo of baby enjoying the gift they
off, and slip it into the cup. Then attach the cup tobrought? So unleash your inner shutterbug and make
your desired colored stick. I recommend using an oddyour guests feel special with these personalized
number of balloons, either three or five, for eachthank you notes.
bouquet depending on your vessel or vase, and howDon't forget that you can reuse many of these ideas
big a balloon you use. You can also cut your sticks tofor other Milestone Birthdays, maybe not the Game
different lengths for added interest, and attachof Firsts on diapers, but certainly many of the photo
ribbons and decorative strands for a festive, yetideas for the invitations, milestone collage, thank you
classy touch.notes and photo cake and cupcakes...and let's not
A few party hats lying around are a nice touch tooforget the balloon bouquets!
even though I wouldn't expect anyone to really wearWhen it comes to parties...Think Easy! Think Fun!