Unleashing Your Gratitude Guru - 7 Positive Psychology Life Coaching Tips

In these tough economic times it is easy to fall into a5. Thank as many people as you can for little things
funk. Reflecting on your personal situation can leaveyou notice them doing that contributes to your
you feeling weak and blah. You can learn to stretchhappiness. Their smile will add to the quality of your
your gratitude muscle and pump up your positivity.life. Thank the bag boy at the grocery store, hug
Here are 7 tips to unleash your Gratitude Guru:your neighbor, or give the dog an extra pat.
1. Get up every morning and remind yourself of one6. When someone is nasty to you, complains or tells
thing you are grateful for. Maybe it is just being ableyou something you don't want to hear, listen to what
to get up and get moving. Focus on what youthey say. Here's the tough part. Again, ask yourself,
have-not what you don't have. Be appreciative of"What is my opportunity"? Perhaps people pay
your family, your health, your pet.attention to you and appreciate you. The happiest
2. Throughout the day, make a list of all the thingspeople have the best social connections. Or maybe
you are grateful for. Carry a cool notebook to journalyou can remind yourself that you are still healthy and
the good stuff. You will start to feel happy justbe grateful that you are able to work. If you look for
looking at it. Or write in it before you go to bed.ways to mine for the gold of what is good about
Journal every positive thing you noticed. Even if itworking, you will find it.
was a tough day, look for what went right. Use your7. Every day, say out loud, "I am grateful for___."
senses. What did you see, taste, touch, smell, andListen to yourself. Forgive yourself for feeling blue.
hear that made your heart sing?Allow the negative self-talk to surface and then
3. Put a gratitude reminder on your calendar. Once anrelease it like a helium balloon.
hour, stop and think of something or someone whoStuck? Can't think of anything good? Look for the
has contributed to your happiness. The more oftenthings you may be taking for granted. Can you walk,
you stop and pause to think of the good, the soonertalk, read, and learn? Start to be grateful for the little
your brain will register this gratitude exploration as aeveryday things and soon you will notice your
habit. Ask yourself "What is my opportunity to beattitude making a positive shift. You will appreciate
grateful here?"that your life could be a whole lot worse.
4. Have fun! When you go to the bathroom, beThese may seem like such simple activities. They are!
grateful. You get to take a break for a minute. TimeSo start doing them today. Like anything else worth
for yourself. Laugh at this one, but it will remind youdoing, gratitude takes practice. Soon worry will be
to take a few minutes for yourself in life.replaced with wonder.